Marriage (the vision, the journey and the future)

Love often time blindfold the eyes, ears,  including the sense of reasoning of some lovers and they focused more on today forgetting that today will become the past soon and tomorrow will soon become today

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Marriage is a journey which two people are expected to be in the conveyance. If you are to embark on a journey with someone, you should both have like vision, passion and destination. If you are going somewhere and the other person is going to a route different from yours, that journey is not meant for you both.

That is why it is important to know where you are going (future) before you start, what you are going there to do (vision), and how to get there (the journey). Many individuals started this journey and crashed along the way because these three crucial aforementioned areas were not taken care of. Likewise many others are making this mistake already because this is not captured in their planning, passion, views and yet, they want to get married.

It will be a serious disaster if after many years of relationship/marriage you later discover that you both are not going towards the same direction, or probably discover that you would have been more committed and contributed more to his/her success and achievement if you've known from the onset what his/her vision is.

If all you know about your partner is that he/she has a degree or many degrees, has a job, and he/she financially prosperous, then you aren’t ready for that marriage. What is his/her vision, purpose, the drive behind all he/she does, believe system, career, ideology about marriage, relationship, family life and destiny fulfillment. If you are ignorant or in total ignorance of this, then you aren’t ready for that marriage.

The most terrible part of this subject matter is that some guys (husband/husband to be) are as confused and naive as their partner in this subject of vision and purpose

I have a job and we are fine, where are we heading to? No idea! and you believe you will ever fulfill destiny together in this manner? NO WAY because no SUCCESS come by mistake or by default

If you are in this category of people, sit yourselves down and enlighten yourselves, talk about the future today, encourage yourselves, ask questions, challenge yourselves, you can be the push that will make the whole thing happen as it is supposed to be

Don't be there like a figure head... Be intentional

Don't forget that whatever your marriage turns out to be will determine the later days of your life and that of your children

Safe those innocent kids of the pain and confusion tomorrow by getting your bearing right today and not basing your life and destiny on trial and error

Talk about the journey

Talk about the future

Talk about the days ahead

Be convinced and have deep understanding of where you are going, don’t journey in confusion

Engage the Holy Spirit to birth more revelation and understanding while you journey together

Be matured and not a child, because marriage is for matured minds and not for boys and girls.

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