Feelings,
emotions, affection and the rest are not love, they are expression of love, if
they are mistaken to be love, there will be chaos and issues definitely,
because the love on its own will no longer be given attention or value but
those things found around it. This exhibition of affections is what majority
does to one another and calls it LOVE but it is not.
This post is one of the most valuable
write-up I’ve ever written and one of the best posts I’ve ever posted. The day
I found this wisdom and truth, my life received a dramatic transformation from
being a loser to a winner and since then, I’ve been able to keep and sustain
valuable and advantageous relationships
It won’t only enlighten you on how
to build and sustain a healthy and happy romantic relationship, but also will
introduce you to the true meaning and importance of love in all ramifications
Love is not a product of affections,
feelings or emotions. Affections, feelings and emotions are things found around
love, they are not love and can never be equated to love. It is like using a
perfume and people smells the fragrance of the perfume, the fragrance they
smelled is not the perfume you applied but a prove that something is present on
you and has affected the environment positively.
Love and infatuation have this attributes
in common and it is usually so hard to identify or differentiate them, but soon
you will know what you are into, if it is love or infatuation
For God so love the word that He gave us
His only begotten son;....1. I established this in theconcept
of love that God is
love and anyone who will ever love and love genuinely must first know, believe
and have God.
The question we should ask is that; can
feeling, affection, and emotion cause a personality like God to give out his
only beloved son out for the remission of sin, if NO, then what kind of love is
it? It is a love birthed out of a conscious and strong decision and
not feelings.
True love is a decision. Affection is a feeling of love or strong
attachment to something or someone while feeling is an emotional sensitivity.
This is the mystery behind I’m in love today and tomorrow no more, because
feelings can end, it can be interrupted but love, NO!
Emotions are not constant; it
can come as a result of a scene or an occurrence, and after some time it will
vanish. If this is what your love story is founded on, the moment it leaves,
your love story also ends.
Many people failed today not
because they are bad or lied to be in love, NO; they truly loved from the onset
but the love was a product of this affection which they never discovered and
after some times, the feeling start depreciating and the end of the matter will
be heartbreak
Check your relationship and see
if the foundation on which you are building is not this variable called
affection. If this is it, you are liable to fail, but I have good news for you,
learn this and change your mentality about your relationship and you will be amazed
with the result.
Decision is a choice of judgment and judgment is
the conclusion of result, therefore with the above two words merged together
with their definitions, we can say decision is a choice taking out of the
conclusion of a result
Love is starting a relationship and
settling down to check, that you may be able to judge rightly what you are
about to start and to know if you are right about your intentions or not, after
which you come to a conclusion consciously, that you love this person and no
matter what the situation, you are ready to stay, stand by and continue life
together. Regardless the flaws!!!
It is a conscious decision taken as the
conclusion of a sincere and deep thought. This is why you see some people
getting married and you are amazed about their physical compatibility
It was so glaring that one is much more
handsome or beautiful than the other and you are shocked, asking yourself
questions that no one will answer; this is the secret behind it, conscious
decision by each party, they concluded that this is him/her and I’m not going
back
Do you think one of them was not convinced
by friends and family that he/she deserve someone better, but because a
decision had been made consciously, they continued till they became a success.
This is why people continued to break your
heart every now and then because it had always being your feelings leading you
both and it has always being mistaken for love which is not.
After few months of starting a
relationship, you see someone else and all of you was transferred and the next
is to breakout from the current one, you will never sustain or build a great
and successful relationship and home like that, NO!
Until you consciously make the
decision, you will continue to jump from one place to another and one person to
another
Married men/women are confused
today because they never made this decision; you will always find someone who
is better than your partner, more handsome/beautiful than your partner, it is
the decision you had taken that will always rescue you from that lust.
You have to sit and re-think, think of all
the good qualities your partner has, appreciate those qualities, decide never
to lose him/her for anything, think of those things you don’t like about
him/her too and deploy a method or plan to help them become better
Stop jumping from here to there in the
name of love, I’ve said this in several teachings about a wonderful lady that
my friends tried to convince me out of loving or marrying her, they told me she
is fat, huge, this and that and after giving birth to two, she will lose shape
and all that, but because I’ve decided that she is the one I wanted, all they
were saying had no effect on me
I will have many witnesses here that part
of the reason you broke those wonderful hearts years past was because you never
made a serious decision about them and because of that, you were not committed
to them, thinking there is someone better somewhere that you will meet someday.
Are you ready to make a conscious
decision now??? You may have gotten married and haven’t decided, get your
diary. Are in a relationship or married? Convinced of God but personally, you
are yet to decide, do it consciously and with all seriously now and your
journey to marital fulfillment will commence
This is why many have not being
able to fight for the one they love, any small challenge; they are out and
hunting for another person. They believed there will always be an alternative out
there. Don’t make mistake by letting your wife/husband be part of those
girlfriends/boyfriend that you call ex
Have you even seen someone
before and you almost got tamed by his/her handsomeness/beauty; that is how it
is, you will always meet people like that, and if you don’t decide today and stay
with your partner unashamedly and unapologetically, you will end up jumping out
and continue to jump
Two (2) ways out of this tragedy of love
and relationship:
1. Make God the foundation of your
relationship; get your conviction so well from God
2 Make a conscious decision about the
relationship and the one you claimed to love and you will be fine
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Reference
John 3:16.......1
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