This complex and feeling had killed many people of their self esteem and robbed them of their integrity and dignity because they lack the understanding of who they are, what they represent and the glorious gift they have.
Inferiority is
the state or feeling of being inferior, meaning a state when a man look at
himself as being very low to the standard of certain environment, region, set
of people or a kingdom
While
VIRGINITY is a state of being a VIRGIN, in relation to human mean a person who
has never had sexual intercourse
The world of
today had really gone bad that people are made to feel inferior for keeping
themselves and remaining loyal to the commandment of God and some other people
for whatever reason (be it personal dignity or vow to oneself or God), that
they will not defile the bed or defile the temple of God before marriage.
I will not
want anyone to feel bad or guilty defiling his or her bed before now, that was
why I gave the teaching ahead of how many people got entangled and some being deceived
into sexual immoralities, some were raped while some were ignorantly abused.
Some started by mistake and made it worse by continuing intentionally.
But remember
that the major aim and purpose of our teachings here is that we may see our
weaknesses, limitations and shortcoming and following the kingdom way and
principles of becoming free and finding our ways back to God
Also remember
that the son of man and the word (Jesus) did not come to condemn or judge but
rather to save the unsaved. Remember that he who is healthy needs no medication
and likewise he who is saved needs no repentance but those that are not saved
must repent else, God will judge them.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers
and adulterers God will judge.”…..1. But our world today had made many compromise their faith
and edited their believe systems, where you will see a young lady being laughed
at among friends for being and still remaining as a virgin, even at a tender
age of 13-17 years; imagine !!!
It is a world
you will see a young boy of 14 chasing girls and telling them virginity is
rubbish. I’ve heard people say, if you are still a virgin, you can’t be their
friend because you are low to their standard and many people foolishly will
join foolish ideology and saying and end up compromising their faith and
believe
There are many
guys that find pleasure in defiling ladies and one of the dead lies I’ve heard
from people is that, if you are a virgin as a lady and you
retained it till you marry, your husband will tell you to go out and get rid of
it, then come back home for the honeymoon. Imagine that rubbish
I’ve
discovered that most people having courage to victimize people in their circle for
being virgins are suffering from insecurity and complex and they will find
every way to make sure you become like them. What a pity that many of our
Christian brothers and sisters fell victim of this lies and ended up
compromising their faith and believe because they really want to feel among and
belong
You will be a
blessing if you can send this teaching to as many teenagers and young adult you
know and willing to be a blessing to them, you can conduct it as a teaching in
your groups because this is what most of our teenagers are facing as part of
the peer pressure that is killing and destroying their destinies
Some are not virgins,
they made the mistake in the past and they really wish and wanted to be serious
with God again by forsaking their old ways and turn a new live (I will talk
more on becoming a virgin again in the last part of this series) but they are
being confused and castigated by friends and even family members.
Know so well
that the journey of life is individualistic and my father “Bishop David
Oyedepo” will say; it is foolishness to be shameful of what is gainful. I was
once there and I know what it feels like to leave, many will laugh at you, they
will test you and tempt you, but yet, if you can stand and pray for grace, you
will overcome just like me for this is my testimony
HOW CAN ONE
OVERCOME THIS INFERIORITY OF BEING A VIRGIN
1 Recognition: Know so well that virginity can’t be purchased
with currency and yet it is precious. You really have to know how valuable you
are for keep your virginity, I know there will be pressure from every angle
among which are boyfriends/girlfriends, bad friends and colleagues. Separate
yourself from them. Bad company corrupts good manner
You have to
believe this and resolve it in your heart that virginity is precious and
priceless, know that every responsible men pray and wish to marry a virgin,
only that it may be very difficult in this dispensation because this lies had
really eaten many up, because fornication and adultery is the song of the town
in our today’s world
But still, you
should not be deceived and ignorantly give it out so cheap, if you do, you have
sinned against God and cheated yourself.
Haven’t you
seen a guy running after a lady for years and pressurizing the lady for sex and
if the lady says no, he will not give up, he will remain committed and
persistent but as soon as the lady failed or stop to realize how precious she
is and give it out to the guy, in less than 3 months to that time, the
relationship will crumble and the guy will break up
Do you why,
there is something so precious about you that money can’t buy, but once you are
deceived to give it out and you do, you have lost the precious stone and the
thief will leave in search for another.
Sex will never
retain a guy and that is why I taught here powerfully sometimes the criteria
for starting a relationship in which MARRIAGE EPISTLE is one of it (you can
request for the teachings by sending a mail to
relationshipmattersnetwork@gmail.com
Recognize what
you have and guide it will all diligence and jealousy. Remember that what you
did not recognize you will never value and what you did not value is permitted
to leave your life.
2 Create a system to do away with all
temptation (ungodly friends and associates): This is very important, you may recognize this truth
(the first point) and still fall victim of the circumstance.
Remember our
father and mother in the garden of Eden, Adam and Eve knew so well that they
are not supposed to eat the fruit at the middle of the garden which is the tree
of the knowledge of good and evil
But they were
so careless enough that an unwanted enemy became a sudden friend that destroyed
them, so it is necessary for everyone to do away with every friend and
associate that you have sensed or know that they don’t have the same conviction
and believe with you.
If you allow
men (referring to both gender) to destroy you, they will end up abusing you and
call you foolish, you life is in two hands alone; God almighty who is the giver
of life and the allocator of purpose, and secondly it is your hand. Let what
people say not disturb you, if they cannot help or make you, they shouldn’t
destroy you and this is what majority are doing to people, separate yourself
and you shall laugh in the end.
Virginity is a
good gift from God, regardless of your gender; cherish and value it.
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Reference
Heb. 13: 4 ……..1
3 Comments
Wow
ReplyDeleteAm so blessed with this piece
It's a relief to know that some people still believe in the integrity of Virginity and abstinence from sexual immoralities. God bless you for this message.
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ReplyDeleteYou do not know what you've done
It's only God that can reward you for this great work
More inspiration from above
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