Overcoming the fear and pain of virginity

More points on how to overcome the inferiority of virginity

Nothing just happens, if you are to be free from anything such as complex and likes, it must come intentionally; therefore there are certain measure to take and principles to follow diligently in order to overcome the challenge and pressure of inferiority complex in the area of virginity.

1. You have to know so well that there are some things about you that will never change: Therefore like yourself just the way you are. You complexion, shape, stature, height and many more, don’t like someone else, what God gave you is unique… There are some people that don’t like themselves and all they do is to admire other people and neglect the uniqueness in their own creation. God created you in His own likeness. Accept it and love it.

2. Know that virginity is valuable: it is a value that God has attached to your life, irrespective of what the society is saying, don’t compromise your faith, believe, stand firm and maintain your dignity till the end (marriage)

3. Turn your limitations to glory and advantage: Read about Joyce Meyer and you will be amazed, it was supposed to be a big limitation for her after she was abused front and back by her father, but today, she turned it to a ladder for success and glory. Remember in nonsense, there is always sense.

3. Know and discover your identity, worth and value: If you think you are valueless, or not much value is attached to you, go for knowledge, be skillful, be useful and by adding value to your life, your complex will disappear

4. Never feel bad for being good or doing good: If the whole world agreed to do bad, remain on your conviction and stand on you believe, don’t compromise your conviction for worthless people, things or this untold society and generation, even people that you respect much can sometimes bring themselves so low by doing things to destroy you. Don’t yield, remain firm

5. Always pray for grace to stand and never fail: If you fail in the days of adversity, it means your strength is small…….1

6. Know and be convinced that you truly worth more than gold and that you are priceless

7. Maximize your potential and add value to your person by eradicating mediocrity and vow to be excellent.