Sex, pleasure and pain

Sex is beautiful, pleasurable, and it is a core part of human life and existence. God made sexuality core to the human experience and indeed, the only way through which Adam and Eve would “fill the earth and subdue it.” and it was established with lots of spiritual attachment and implications beyond the natural; both on the positive and negative.

This series and post is one of the most valuable write-up and post I’ve ever worked on and I’m sure it will really bless you by opening you up to the reality and mystery behind sex, its pleasure and pain. This is part of the reason why many people are in trouble martially today and the reason why it is most likely for many others to enter into eternal trouble as regards relationship and marriage which is one of the core area of human life

Few years ago, I fought this understanding seriously because I personally don’t want to believe it and I faced and suffered the consequence of my arrogance and rebellion for certain season before God in His infinite mercy gave me that powerful encounter that changed my life and gave me understanding of certain mysteries which I will be sharing with your soon. “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”….1

Sex is beautiful, pleasurable, and it is a core part of human life and existence. God made sexuality core to the human experience and indeed, the only way through which Adam and Eve would “fill the earth and subdue it.” Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife:  and they shall be one flesh.  And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed….2

Sex is what validate them (Adam and Eve) becoming one flesh which has to with blood mixing with blood, water mixing with water and flesh entering into flesh and this sexual symbol is one of the most powerful and important symbols that validate their union and a prove of them becoming one flesh. As we know, it is generally believed  and biblical that when a man and a woman had been joined together by a priest alongside the blessings of the parent, they automatically become one flesh, much more than that is the place and symbol of becoming one flesh which is validated with sexual intercourse (intimacy) between lovers.

Song of Solomon celebrates the sexual delight of lovers, while Paul taught that marital union represents the relationship between Christ and his church, which means as the Christ is the head of the Church, so also is the man the head of his wife, as Christ willingly died for the Church, also should a man be willing selflessly to die for his wife.

Mind you, when a man accept the life of Christ by accepting Him and confessing Him as his/her Lord and savior, he/she automatic receive an initiation into the family of God, and by so doing, we are empowered to be partaker of the life of God (ZOE), the power of God (DUNAMIS), and become an embodiment of His presence, likewise is sex and sexual intercourse among lovers.

Once you have accepted to be my wife or husband and we willingly subject ourselves under the authority of a priest and the blessings of our parent, it is a call to one flesh initiation, and don’t forget that this has process. Beyond the call for initiation is the real experiential part of the initiation that happens on the bed of sexuality whereby a man willingly and joyfully meet his wife sexually without sin.

Remember that when Christ married the Church, He gave His life and His totality for His covenant wife (the Church) and by doing so, also expecting the Church (believers) to accept this fact, appreciate it and reciprocate this kind of sacrifice, meaning that; after I’ve given you my life, I expect you to give me your life in return. And he said to them all, if any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. For whosoever will save his life shall lose it:  but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it….3 Once this initiation process has been fully delivered and confirmed, all I have is your, and all you have is mine.

The same things with the initiation of one flesh, which means, once this initiation process has been initiated, what you are agreeing on is that, all that is mine is yours and all that is yours become mine, we are no longer two, but one and the point of sealing this agreement to put it into law is sex.

Meaning that, once this intimacy come in place, there is a permanent transfer and sharing of spiritual and physical virtues, meaning that everything that is mine both spiritually and physically is hereby transferred into you and your into me, therefore, I will become a part of you and a part of me and also you will become a part of me and a part of you. So everything you represent in the realm of the spirit (be it a godly spirit or devilish, be it blessings or curse, be it anything) will automatically be transferred to me and I will be a carrier of it and you also will become a carrier of mine.

Life is spiritual and must be approached from that stand point; this is why it is very dangerous for a single individual to engage in sexual intercourse with someone you are not married to. Now imagine giving your body to different people at different time or season of one’s life and by chance had this sexual intimacy (sex) with them all, do you know how many persons you have shared you virtues with and them sharing theirs with you. This is the secret behind many people misfortune in life. They shout and cry that their problem is demonic, they are right, but most of the time, they are the demons behind their own predicaments and problems because this is called self initiated or invited problem and affliction.

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Reference

John 8: 32.......1

Genesis 2: 21-25.......2

Matthew 16:24-25.......3