Sex, pleasure and pain 2

There were seasons of ignorance and foolishness in everyone’s life, some are in the past, some present and some if failed to subscribe to the truth and intelligence that is made for the avoidance of vulnerability will still fall victim of these things. It has always being the intention of God that we have an expected end and there is that which is demanded of us as individuals and more that we may live our lives to become the best for our partner/spouse; be it now or later. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end….1

No one is perfect, and we all are working and hoping on God to help our imperfection and made perfect that which concerns us. But it is very important that we know the truth and much more beyond knowing the truth is being humble and broken enough to accept and believe the truth, after which the necessary actions for purification and sanctification can follow. “For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass:”….2 meaning that such an individual will remain who he or she is and may never be changed by the truth, when the truth come, we are expected to be changed by the truth in order to conform to the true picture of truth.

I’ve once being there and I really appreciate God for the grace today; assuming I was innocent, you may say it’s because I’ve not being there but I can tell you categorically that I know how and what it do feel like and the burden that is attached when we start seeing the need of Christ to really take charge of our lives and us deciding to forsake our old ways, it will be like the world is crashing on us, but don’t worry, let the Holy Spirit do His work, you just follow and open your heart

Majority are entangled in this sexual immorality which became a thing of pain today because of ignorance, many were deceived into it, lots were influenced into it, some as a result of peer pressure and other intentionally out of ignorance of what they are about to enter into it and to come out of it became war.

God is the author of relationship and marriage and He says Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled:  but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge….3; Meaning that if you taste it before marriage, you are a whoremonger and if you are married and yet tasting someone else is adultery and God will judge you by Himself is what He says. This is part of the reason why many people are living a very hard and difficult life today, things are not working as expected and had failed to trace the route, trace it now.

I made it clear in the first aspect of this series on how you open door to all manners of thing by the virtue of the mystery of one flesh. As I start analyzing the medium through which many got entangled into this act, consciously pick yours in it and immediately pray for grace to be free and also
when what to do to gain freedom is shared, dive into it with all tenacity.

How many of us got entangled into this path of pain and agony and the path to freedom

1. Ungodly relationship: Many of us are victim of this ungodly relationship, in fact, many are still in this while many by understanding the love, mercy, grace, principles and commandment of God had been set free, we all long to be loved, we all crave for importance, everyone want to feel appreciated and an average human want to be in a romantic relationship and to have someone he or she will/can call his/her own

But we forgot most time that “There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death….4” And this is why in less than two weeks of starting a relationship, all the guy/lady wanted from you is kiss, romance, sex and the rest, aren’t we wise enough to know that this kind of relationship will definitely result to death spiritually and physically. The urge to be loved, valued and appreciated should not override our sense of reasoning to give ourselves cheap to be destroyed by the devise of the wicked

In those days, I was deceived into it by a lady, it was all as a result of ungodly relationship, we were not ready for the relationship but we really wanted to feel among, we wanted to be carried along, we didn’t know what relationship is all about, we didn’t have any plan for the future (destination) and yet we do all manners of things in the relationship with the believe that we were enjoying while destiny was waving us bye little by little.

How many people today had lost their virginity ignorantly and painfully to the wrong person and at the wrong time because of an unworthy and ungodly relationship? And ended up being trapped into this mess of sexual immorality, some became sex addict in the process and crying today for help but couldn’t get one easily. I pray God will set you free by this series of post in Jesus name.

How many people today had lost their womb in the process of abortion because of the painful repercussion of this forbidden fruit birthed by ignorance and foolishness of mankind that the youth are swimming in day by day

How many individuals had lost their lives in this process? How many has destiny departed from totally because of this? How many lost glory because of this? How many became filthy as rag because of this? How many lost THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD all because of a romantic relationship and we are so gullible to the extent of forsaking our relationship with the father and our place in the kingdom all because of this worthless act called sex out of wedlock.

It is a very painful thing to me that 85% of our teenagers today are deeply in this act, how much more our youths, we hear it every day, we read it from books and articles every day and yet we are dying daily on this bed of sexual immorality and struggled so much to be free but instead of being freed, it continues on the increase on daily basis to the point of becoming sex addict and some when there is no one to satisfy this sexual urge and desire, they began to masturbate, what kind of pace are you setting for this upcoming generation????

Truly the end time is here and we are the one helping this perilous season to move at a high speed, most especially the Christians, and our father is in heaven watching us and shaking His head. Jesus full of grieve; “are these those I suffered for that they may not suffer again, are they still the same people I died for that they may inherit eternal life.”

I hope we are preparing our way before the Lord, that when he come, He may rejoice once more and say, truly His death was not in vain.

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Reference

Jer. 29:11.......1

James 1:23.......2

Heb. 13:4.......3

Prov. 16:25.......4